RESTORE

This chapter from the BFG Handbook (Christian Edition of the Tao Te Ching) presents the gospel through a new "Expression" of God’s Love to RESTORE the Truth.

Chapter 79: Rich in the Eyes of God

After settling a bitter dispute ^a
Some resentment remains
How can this be good?

The righteous man upholds his half of the bargain ^a
But does not demand anything from the other

The righteous fulfill their obligations ^a
But the unrighteous demand compensation

Though our Heavenly God is impartial, ^b
He gives to those who serve others^c

^a Luke 6:27-36; ^b1 Peter 1:17; Romans 2:11; ^cProverbs 12:2; Proverbs 22:1.

Chapter 79 of the Tao Te Ching reflects on the importance of forgiveness, humility, and the proper attitude towards fulfilling one’s obligations, and these principles resonate deeply with Christian teachings. The chapter begins by acknowledging that even after settling a bitter dispute, some resentment remains, and this highlights the reality of human relationships. In the Christian faith, forgiveness is a key theme, and this teaching parallels Jesus’ words in Matthew 18:21-22, where He instructs His followers to forgive “not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” The chapter acknowledges the complexity of human emotions, such as resentment, and encourages an approach that transcends these feelings, calling for a heart that seeks peace and reconciliation.

The righteous person, according to this chapter, upholds their end of an agreement but does not demand anything from the other party. This mirrors the Christian concept of grace, where believers are called to give freely, without expecting repayment, just as God has given freely to us. Luke 6:27-36 emphasizes love for enemies and generosity without expectation of return, instructing believers to “lend, expecting nothing in return” (Luke 6:35). The idea of fulfilling one’s obligations without seeking compensation highlights the selfless nature of Christ’s teachings, where service to others is done without the desire for personal gain or recognition.

In contrast, the unrighteous person is depicted as someone who demands compensation, which speaks to the human tendency towards selfishness and entitlement. This mirrors the warnings in the New Testament against greed and materialism, as seen in 1 Timothy 6:10, where Paul writes, “For the love of money is the root of all evil.” The unrighteous are concerned with receiving what they are owed, while the righteous find their fulfillment in serving others, not in demanding compensation or recognition.

The chapter concludes with the observation that while God is impartial, He gives to those who serve others. This aligns with the Christian concept of God’s justice and mercy. As stated in 1 Peter 1:17, God “judges each person’s work impartially,” and yet He rewards those who live according to His will, serving others in love and humility. Proverbs 12:2 and 22:1 both highlight the value of righteousness and integrity, which are highly esteemed in the eyes of God. In this sense, the true riches in the eyes of God are not material wealth but the spiritual wealth gained through acts of kindness, humility, and service to others.

In conclusion, Chapter 79 of the Tao Te Ching challenges individuals to act righteously, forgive willingly, and serve others without expecting anything in return. This mirrors the Christian call to live out the principles of grace, mercy, and selfless love. God’s impartiality does not diminish His abundant generosity toward those who live in accordance with His will, serving others and seeking His kingdom first. Just as the righteous do not demand compensation, so Christians are called to follow Christ’s example of sacrificial love, trusting that God will reward them according to His perfect justice and mercy.

RENEWAL

The Trinitarian Method (M.A.P.) is the framework for RENEWAL, where God’s Love shapes our MINDSET, Trust in the Son directs our AIM, and Faith in the Holy Spirit guides our PRACTICE.

Mindset:

1. Mindset Before Settling Disputes or Resentment

Line from the chapter: “After settling a bitter dispute, some resentment remains. How can this be good?”
Mindset: Approach reconciliation with humility, patience, and grace, accepting that complete emotional healing may take time.
Explanation: The mindset before taking action is one of understanding that even after a dispute is settled, there may still be lingering emotions like resentment. Accepting this reality helps to avoid frustration or disappointment when the outcome isn’t perfect. It emphasizes the importance of perseverance and a willingness to continue seeking peace, even if it’s not immediately achieved.
Real-world application: In today’s world, conflicts are common, whether in personal relationships, the workplace, or even on a larger scale. Instead of expecting instant emotional resolution, we should be patient and focus on the process of reconciliation. For instance, when a misunderstanding with a colleague or family member is resolved, it’s important to remain patient as healing takes place over time.
Scriptures:
- “Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy.” (Hebrews 12:14)
- “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18)

2. Mindset Before Upholding One’s Half of the Bargain

Line from the chapter: “The righteous man upholds his half of the bargain, but does not demand anything from the other.”
Mindset: Commit to personal integrity, fulfilling your part of the agreement without expecting reciprocation.
Explanation: The mindset here is about focusing on what you can control—your own actions—without worrying about how others will respond. It means doing the right thing, even when the other party may not. This requires self-discipline and a deep sense of responsibility, knowing that your integrity is not contingent on the actions of others.
Real-world application: In our personal or professional lives, this principle can be applied in situations like business deals, friendships, or marriage. For example, in a business partnership, you may honor your side of the agreement even if the other party doesn’t fulfill their end of the deal immediately. This demonstrates maturity and steadfastness, building trust over time.
Scriptures:
- “Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’” (Matthew 5:37)
- “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much.” (Luke 16:10)

3. Mindset Before Serving or Fulfilling Obligations

Line from the chapter: “The righteous fulfill their obligations, but the unrighteous demand compensation.”
Mindset: Serve with a heart of selflessness, doing good for others without expecting anything in return.
Explanation: This mindset calls for focusing on the act of service rather than the reward. The righteous do good not for the benefit they might gain but because it’s the right thing to do. This mindset leads to true generosity and love, devoid of selfish motives. It requires a heart transformed by love for God and others, where the joy of giving is greater than the desire for personal gain.
Real-world application: In everyday life, this might look like volunteering at a shelter or helping a neighbor without expecting recognition or rewards. When you do things for others, whether in your family, community, or workplace, do it out of love, not because you want something back. This builds a culture of selflessness and kindness.
Scriptures:
- “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” (Philippians 2:4)
- “Freely you have received; freely give.” (Matthew 10:8)

4. Mindset Before Seeking Blessings or Recognition

Line from the chapter: “Though our Heavenly God is impartial, He gives to those who serve others.”
Mindset: Recognize that true blessings come from serving others selflessly, without seeking recognition or reward from men.
Explanation: The mindset should be to serve with the understanding that God’s blessings are a result of our willingness to serve others in His name. This approach removes selfish ambition and replaces it with a heart eager to reflect Christ’s love and humility. It’s about understanding that God sees the heart and rewards those who humbly serve, even if the world doesn’t acknowledge their actions.
Real-world application: In the modern world, this mindset is especially relevant in social media-driven environments where people often seek praise or attention for their good deeds. Instead, we should focus on serving others in silence and humility, knowing that God sees our heart and will reward us in His time, not based on worldly recognition.
Scriptures:
- “Whoever wants to be great among you must be your servant.” (Matthew 20:26)
- “But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing.” (Matthew 6:3)

These principles reflect a mindset focused on humility, service, integrity, and patience—qualities that are essential for living out the Christian faith authentically in today’s world.

AIM:

1. Aim Before Settling Disputes or Resentment

Line from the chapter: “After settling a bitter dispute, some resentment remains. How can this be good?”
Aim: Aim for peace and reconciliation, understanding that full emotional healing may take time.
Explanation: The goal before taking action is to focus on restoring peace, even if emotional resolution is not immediate. It’s essential to prioritize reconciliation and humility, allowing space for patience and ongoing healing. Resentment is natural but should not prevent us from striving toward peace and reconciliation with others.
Real-world application: In situations where a conflict has been resolved but feelings of bitterness still linger, the aim should be to keep working toward peace, even when it doesn’t happen instantly. For instance, in a work setting, when a conflict is resolved but tension remains, continue to foster open communication and understanding, allowing relationships to heal over time.
Scriptures:
- “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” (Matthew 5:9)
- “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” (1 Peter 4:8)

2. Aim Before Upholding One’s Half of the Bargain

Line from the chapter: “The righteous man upholds his half of the bargain, but does not demand anything from the other.”
Aim: Aim for personal integrity and faithfulness to your word, regardless of the actions of others.
Explanation: The focus should be on your own actions, ensuring that you fulfill your commitments without expecting others to reciprocate in the same way. This principle encourages self-discipline and dedication to doing what is right, regardless of the other person’s response. Your character is shaped by what you do, not by what others do.
Real-world application: In any agreement or promise, especially in business or relationships, aim to uphold your side of the deal even if others fail to do the same. For example, in a business partnership where one party doesn’t fulfill their obligations, your goal should be to maintain professionalism and honor your commitments without seeking revenge or retribution.
Scriptures:
- “Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’” (Matthew 5:37)
- “The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.” (Proverbs 12:26)

3. Aim Before Serving or Fulfilling Obligations

Line from the chapter: “The righteous fulfill their obligations, but the unrighteous demand compensation.”
Aim: Aim to serve selflessly and fulfill obligations with a heart of humility, not seeking personal gain.
Explanation: The righteous person serves and fulfills their obligations without expecting compensation or recognition. The goal is to serve others for the sake of love, not for reward. This principle encourages a mindset of generosity and sacrifice, where the joy of serving others is its own reward.
Real-world application: In everyday situations, whether it’s helping a neighbor, volunteering, or fulfilling a work obligation, aim to do so without expecting anything in return. For example, if you volunteer at a charity or help a friend move, the goal should be to serve with a heart of compassion and without expecting a favor in return.
Scriptures:
- “The greatest among you will be your servant.” (Matthew 23:11)
- “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” (Philippians 2:3)

4. Aim Before Seeking Blessings or Recognition

Line from the chapter: “Though our Heavenly God is impartial, He gives to those who serve others.”
Aim: Aim to serve others with a pure heart, seeking God’s approval, not worldly recognition.
Explanation: The ultimate aim is to seek God’s favor through selfless service. When you serve others, do so with a heart focused on God’s glory rather than seeking validation from people. This principle teaches that true blessings come from God, who rewards those who serve Him by serving others.
Real-world application: In a world that often seeks recognition or fame, aim to serve in humility and for the right reasons. Whether it’s serving in your local church, in your community, or in your workplace, focus on serving others as a reflection of God’s love, not for personal accolades.
Scriptures:
- “So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do, to be honored by others.” (Matthew 6:2)
- “But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing.” (Matthew 6:3)

These aims guide us in today’s world to maintain a Christlike attitude, focusing on peace, integrity, selfless service, and humility, while remaining grounded in our commitment to God’s will.

Practice:

1. Practice Before Settling Disputes or Resentment

Line from the chapter: “After settling a bitter dispute, some resentment remains. How can this be good?”
Practice: Practice forgiveness and reconciliation, even if emotional healing is a gradual process.
Explanation: Practicing forgiveness and actively seeking reconciliation, even when full emotional healing doesn’t happen immediately, reflects God’s grace. This principle encourages us to pursue peace without expecting perfection, understanding that even after disputes are settled, some hurt may linger. It’s important to stay committed to forgiving and pursuing peace, trusting that God will continue to work in both parties’ hearts.
Real-world application: When you face a conflict at work, in a friendship, or in family dynamics, practice letting go of resentment and offering forgiveness, even if it takes time. Focus on repairing the relationship and creating space for healing. For example, in a disagreement with a colleague, you may not feel entirely free of resentment right away, but by choosing to forgive, you take the first step in bringing peace into the relationship.
Scriptures:
- “Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” (Colossians 3:13)
- “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” (Matthew 5:9)

2. Practice Before Upholding One’s Half of the Bargain

Line from the chapter: “The righteous man upholds his half of the bargain, but does not demand anything from the other.”
Practice: Practice personal integrity and fulfill your commitments without expectation of reciprocity.
Explanation: Upholding your commitments, regardless of others’ actions, is central to living out God’s calling for our lives. By practicing integrity, we honor God and demonstrate that our actions are not driven by others’ behavior but by our own desire to be faithful to our word. The practice involves focusing on fulfilling your obligations without bargaining or keeping score.
Real-world application: In your career, relationships, or ministry, practice being consistent and trustworthy by upholding your word, even when others may not do the same. For example, if you’re in a leadership position, be sure to deliver on your promises to your team, even if they don’t always follow through. This builds trust and reflects your commitment to God’s principles.
Scriptures:
- “Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’” (Matthew 5:37)
- “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much.” (Luke 16:10)

3. Practice Before Serving or Fulfilling Obligations

Line from the chapter: “The righteous fulfill their obligations, but the unrighteous demand compensation.”
Practice: Practice serving others selflessly, fulfilling obligations out of love and compassion, not for personal gain.
Explanation: Practicing selfless service is about doing the right thing because it is the right thing to do, without seeking reward or compensation. The righteous person serves others out of genuine love, knowing that serving others honors God. This practice cultivates a heart of humility and generosity, transforming our actions to align with God’s love.
Real-world application: In today’s world, practice being the first to help someone in need, whether it’s a neighbor, a colleague, or a stranger. You might serve without expecting anything in return, such as helping someone with a task, offering support during difficult times, or volunteering your time in the community. These actions demonstrate the heart of Christ and reflect His love.
Scriptures:
- “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” (Philippians 2:3)
- “The greatest among you will be your servant.” (Matthew 23:11)

4. Practice Before Seeking Blessings or Recognition

Line from the chapter: “Though our Heavenly God is impartial, He gives to those who serve others.”
Practice: Practice serving with a heart focused on God’s approval, not seeking recognition from people.
Explanation: Practicing service with a pure heart means that you’re not focused on how others see you, but on honoring God with your actions. The aim is to serve with humility, knowing that God sees and rewards what is done in secret, even if the world does not. This practice teaches us to let go of pride and the desire for praise, aligning our actions with God’s will.
Real-world application: In your everyday life, practice serving others without expecting a thank you or reward. For example, you might help a colleague without any expectation of recognition, volunteer for a cause without needing public acknowledgment, or give to charity secretly. This reflects the heart of Christ and brings glory to God.
Scriptures:
- “But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing.” (Matthew 6:3)
- “So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do.” (Matthew 6:2)

5. Practice Before Trusting in God’s Provision

Line from the chapter: “Though our Heavenly God is impartial, He gives to those who serve others.”
Practice: Practice trusting in God’s provision and timing, knowing He rewards those who serve Him by serving others.
Explanation: Trusting in God’s provision means letting go of the need for immediate or worldly rewards. The practice is to serve with the belief that God sees your heart and will provide in His perfect time. This requires faith in God’s justice and love, knowing that serving others with a pure heart is the most rewarding path, even when it’s not immediately recognized by the world.
Real-world application: In your work, ministry, or personal life, practice trusting God’s timing. Even when you serve others, whether in small or large ways, trust that He will provide and bless you in the way that aligns with His will. For example, if you’re working on a project and doing it with integrity and selflessness, trust that God will guide and reward your efforts, even if others do not immediately recognize it.
Scriptures:
- “Whoever wants to be great among you must be your servant.” (Matthew 20:26)
- “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:19)

By practicing these principles, we align our actions with God’s purpose, reflecting His love and grace in the world, and ultimately fulfilling our purpose in today’s world.

RESPOND

Renewal brings the transformation of our spirit with ardor, empowering us to RESPOND to the call of holiness and make disciples of all nations. This encourages meaningful dialogue to embrace shared truths that transcend cultural and religious boundaries.

1. Universal Truth of Peace and Reconciliation

Line from the chapter: “After settling a bitter dispute, some resentment remains. How can this be good?”
Parallel Religious Teachings:
- Christianity: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” (Matthew 5:9)
- Islam: “And if two parties among the believers fall into dispute, make peace between them.” (Quran 49:9)
- Hinduism: “The wise man, who knows the truth, remains calm even when the situation becomes hostile.” (Bhagavad Gita 2:14)
- Buddhism: “Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.” (Dhammapada 1:5)
- Judaism: “Seek peace and pursue it.” (Psalm 34:14)
How This Unites Us: The principle of reconciliation and forgiveness is a universal truth that transcends religious boundaries. Every major religion teaches the importance of peace, not only externally between individuals but also internally within oneself. This shared principle promotes healing, understanding, and unity, encouraging individuals to work through conflict with patience and grace.
Real-world application: In today’s divided world, this principle calls for actively seeking peace in personal relationships, communities, and even at the global level. Practically, this means engaging in dialogue to resolve conflicts, mediating disputes with compassion, and fostering forgiveness. For instance, in a community with racial tensions, individuals can practice reconciliation by coming together to understand each other’s pain, thereby healing divisions.
Scriptures:
- “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18)
- “And if two parties among the believers fall into dispute, make peace between them.” (Quran 49:9)

2. Universal Truth of Integrity and Fulfilling One’s Commitments

Line from the chapter: “The righteous man upholds his half of the bargain, but does not demand anything from the other.”
Parallel Religious Teachings:
- Christianity: “Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.'” (Matthew 5:37)
- Islam: “O you who have believed, fulfill [all] contracts.” (Quran 5:1)
- Hinduism: “A man who acts in accordance with his dharma (duty) has no fear.” (Bhagavad Gita 16:3)
- Buddhism: “Do not harm, do not break your promises, be diligent in action.” (Dhammapada 10:14)
- Judaism: “A righteous man who walks in his integrity—blessed are his children after him.” (Proverbs 20:7)
How This Unites Us: This universal truth emphasizes the value of integrity in all aspects of life—whether in business, relationships, or personal commitments. The idea of upholding one’s word, regardless of external factors, is common across all major religions. This principle teaches us that true righteousness is found in fulfilling our duties and responsibilities, not in demanding reciprocation.
Real-world application: In any work environment, uphold your commitments by meeting deadlines and delivering on promises, regardless of how others behave. If a colleague fails to meet their obligations, practice doing your part with integrity. This builds trust, strengthens relationships, and sets an example for others to follow. Integrity in actions reflects a person’s character and aligns them with a higher moral standard.
Scriptures:
- “Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.'” (Matthew 5:37)
- “O you who have believed, fulfill [all] contracts.” (Quran 5:1)

3. Universal Truth of Selfless Service and Fulfillment of Obligations

Line from the chapter: “The righteous fulfill their obligations, but the unrighteous demand compensation.”
Parallel Religious Teachings:
- Christianity: “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” (Matthew 20:26)
- Islam: “And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy, and say, ‘My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small.'” (Quran 17:24)
- Hinduism: “The highest type of man is one who serves without expectation of reward.” (Bhagavad Gita 9:22)
- Buddhism: “The one who does good, will be rewarded with good.” (Dhammapada 6:3)
- Judaism: “Whoever does righteous acts and gives to charity, does so out of kindness, not out of expectation.” (Talmud, Avot 1:2)
How This Unites Us: The universal truth of selfless service teaches us that the essence of righteousness is found not in seeking reward but in fulfilling our obligations with a pure heart. This principle resonates across all major religions, teaching that true value lies in what we give, not in what we receive. Serving others without expecting compensation fosters a sense of unity and compassion among all people.
Real-world application: Volunteer at a local food bank, help a neighbor without expecting anything in return, or contribute to your community in a way that reflects a servant’s heart. Whether at home or at work, practicing selflessness in daily actions promotes goodwill and strengthens relationships. For example, mentoring someone in your field without expecting a return can help foster mutual respect and growth.
Scriptures:
- “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” (Matthew 20:26)
- “And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy, and say, ‘My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small.'” (Quran 17:24)

4. Universal Truth of Seeking God’s Approval, Not Human Recognition

Line from the chapter: “Though our Heavenly God is impartial, He gives to those who serve others.”
Parallel Religious Teachings:
- Christianity: “So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do.” (Matthew 6:2)
- Islam: “Indeed, Allah does not look at your appearance or wealth, but He looks at your hearts and deeds.” (Sahih Muslim)
- Hinduism: “He who does his duty without desiring the fruits of his actions is said to be truly devoted.” (Bhagavad Gita 3:19)
- Buddhism: “Let not the fruit of your labor be the goal, but let your efforts be in alignment with virtue.” (Dhammapada 8:3)
- Judaism: “Do not be like those who do deeds in public to be seen by men. Seek only the favor of God.” (Talmud, Berakhot 9:5)
How This Unites Us: This truth teaches that the pursuit of divine approval, not human recognition, is at the heart of true righteousness. Across all major religions, there is a shared understanding that actions should be motivated by an inner desire to please God or the divine, not to gain fame or approval from others. This fosters humility and helps us focus on what is eternally significant rather than temporary recognition.
Real-world application: When serving others, ensure that your motivation is not for applause or praise but from a genuine desire to help. Whether it’s volunteering for a cause or giving to charity, do so quietly and without expectation of recognition. This practice aligns you with the values of all major religions and helps cultivate a humble heart that seeks God’s approval rather than human admiration.
Scriptures:
- “So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do.” (Matthew 6:2)
- “Indeed, Allah does not look at your appearance or wealth, but He looks at your hearts and deeds.” (Sahih Muslim)

Unity in Universal Truths

These principles—peace, integrity, selflessness, and seeking divine approval—are the universal truths that unite all major religions. They form the moral and ethical foundation for human behavior, fostering compassion, understanding, and unity among people of different faiths. In practicing these principles, we not only grow in our own spiritual journeys but also contribute to creating a world that reflects the highest ideals of justice, love, and harmony.

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